At times our life is pointless, or it feels like where are we heading to. This has happened a lot to me. Like what I am doing and why I am doing,
this used to be the common question in my head all the times. This can happen due to a lot of reasons which we will be discussing in coming few minutes.
Few of the reasons which I feel make us feel our life is pointless are listed here.
Reasons behind pointless life :
The reason due to which your life is pointless could be any, either one out of all or all of them. You never know.
Too much chaos :
Many of us run behind so many things all at once. This create a chaos in life. The reason behind this is we want to achieve what others have but we are not willing to put in that much effort in that thing.
Inconsistent efforts :
Suppose you have figured out everything and you are putting in efforts but when you don’t see results in short run those efforts start going down. These inconsistent efforts in turn reduce your chances of achieving anything in life. Instead what you should do is put in consistent efforts even if you are not seeing results right now.
What you should you do when you feel your life is pointless ?
Now when you know why your life is pointless, its your time to gain control over your life and make it meaningful and worthy.
There are a few things you can do :-
Try making your mind calm :
You in your life will meet certain people that would not be happy with you or your work at all that too without any reason. Instead of proving yourself or getting provoked, learn to ignore them.
Listen and forget negative things that are being told to you. Don’t give them space in your head.
Think about one thing at a time :
A lot of people are just confused. In a moment, they want to achieve 50 things but in second they are happy with what they have. I would suggest, take baby steps towards anything.
If you achieve small victories everyday, you will start feeling less that your life is pointless.
Plan that bloody one thing so well that there is no scope of failure :
Doing one thing with perfection is far better than doing ten and even ruining all of them. If you are providing any service in the world, no one should consider messing with you in that genre be that damn perfect.
Prove yourself to yourself :
Proving to others that you are something and they should respect you for that is the worst thing you can do to yourself. You should only trying proving yourself to the better version of yourself. Your thoughts should be like this ,”I decided this damn thing and I achieved it. Come up with the next.”
Don’t waste time proving yourself to friends and world. When you can’t achieve anything they will make fun of you and when you achieve that thing they will say you were born with a silver spoon.
People are never going to be happy on your success. Don’t seek their validations. You are tend to be your true self not somebody who is living to please others all the time.
Be the better version without validations.
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