Human race was evolved just in order to socialize and it was all fine until social media entered the game. The original idea behind the original social media platform Facebook was to bring people closer and be more available to their friends and family living miles apart.
Now social media platforms have just become a place to flaunt and show-off things. Social media is just drifting apart social cultures. People after so called social platforms are now becoming more and more unavailable for each other.
What I mean is, you can just turn of your blue check marks and online status on WhatsApp and you are free to make any excuse for a late reply although you saw the message instantly.
Earlier people used to communicate when they didn’t want to talk to you with proper reasoning. But now due to convenience with just few taps they just become inaccessible. Simply what I mean to say is that they block you.
Being Social and being on Social Media are two inversely relative subject now :
Earlier people used to gather in society compound or at general store/tea stall, in order to gossip or to help out friends by giving advice. Now a days people are just busy collecting Instagram follow request or Message requests.
Communication has really become difficult. The original idea behind social media was to make communication easy and better but what is happening is completely opposite to the original idea.
Earlier people used to have a bunch of friends who were available even in odd hours too. Whereas today, even I doubt that if someday I needed some help none of my friends would even answer call in one ring.
Celebrity trauma has hit people, they don’t understand basic human nature anymore. When something becomes too difficult to be achieved 90% of people will just leave it behind and move on in life. In similar way, if you act too pricy people will leave you too.
Then most probably by the time you’re 30, you will be lonely, even in some cases you won’t have your friends by your death bed.
Harsh truth :
Believe me or not but every teenage person who owns a smartphone have their phone with themselves all the time. So when they say that they replied because their phone was lying room and they were in kitchen or garden just don’t fall for them and their lies. Just leave that conversation where it is without arguments.
No one is good enough to leave their phone anywhere in their own house too. They are carrying it all time with themselves.
Message for those people who act pricey to their friends :
Okay! For an instance let’s assume you got the attention you desired for once, twice or thrice maybe. But ever imagined that who will be available to you when you need some help or a shoulder to rely upon?
See there are many things that you can not share with your family for that you need a trust worthy friend. But due to what you have done to people no one would show up for you when you need them.
Now the thoughts full of anxiety will start developing a space in your head and gradually you will lead towards chronic depression and when you will finally decide to find any of your old friend to share your feeling, you won’t find a single one trust worthy.
Therefore , all those people who act mean and pricey to their friends and family on social media start valuing their presence otherwise a day will come you won’t be having anybody around you.
Thanks.
