How many times this thought crosses your mind that should I give up ? Before moving ahead in this article, go and comment down below how many times you feel like giving up. The answer to this question may vary from person to person, it is just the way you accept things like failures and success. Giving up is never a choice, it’s just that you try something – you fail at it therefore you give up.
Why you feel that you should give up ?
Why this thought occur in the first place? Maybe because, you are trying too hard to achieve something but fail at it. There are various reason you feel like giving up. Some of them are :
1. You already had too much of something.
The greed of matching the pace, you start doing more of everything. Being creator, you become greedy of creating more content to overcome everybody else. Being a business owner, you become more greedy of generating more and more sales. But during this race, you already have too much of your thing that you are start getting bored. Once the joy of creating something or doing something disappears, you just start feeling like you should give up.
2. You have put in efforts at much more pace than required.
If you are competing against someone, whether against market or any other person in family. You are always being told, see xyz person has gained so much in so little period of time and you should do the same. On such notes, I am like, okay he/she did it that’s a good thing but why do you want me to be some xyz and just not me-myself. But through such questions you are indirectly being asked to increase your pace to attain success in a shorter duration of time.
3. You are being questioned too much about slow progress.
Continuation to the above point and kind of repetitive point. But tell me honestly, why you should progress faster ?
When wise-people have created a proverb saying, “Slow and steady wins the race”. Than why you want me to run faster. I have my own pace in life at which I can process things. All five fingers are not same, no?
When people specially the family members start questioning too much, you eventually feel like you should give up.
What you should do in order to feel positive?
After all the crap that has forced you to think that you should give up. Here are a few things, you can do in order to gain some confidence and feel positive. Although it isn’t possible not think that you should give up. Still let’s have a look into it.
1. Ignore the crap.
Follow an old saying, “listen with one ear remove with the other”. Learn ignoring shit. If someone says you you can’t do it, let them assume it and prove them wrong by doing the same thing twice.
2. Do your work sincerely.
Your quality of work should never be affected by what people say. Listen to your heart and do your work sincerely. And achieve everything you want, you will definitely gain some confidence.
Consistent efforts are better than too many efforts all at once.
3. Never reply back.
When somebody is trying to demotivate you, never reply back. Because the more you confront someone, more they will try demoralizing you.
Not replying them will feel to them like, their opinion doesn’t matter for you and they would stop commenting in future.
4. Take breaks.
Taking breaks while doing any task increases efficiency. The more efficiently you can do something, more are the chances of you being successful at it.
Conclusions :
- Do your work sincerely.
- Ignore shit.
- Take breaks.
- Never get disheartened or don’t let it take a toll on you.
- Be chill.
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